The Dis-ease
Of Self Improvement
By Paul Bauer
The
old sage Vernon Howard once coined the phrase "psychic sleep"
which he used when he described people who went through life "going
through the motions" without even being aware they we're going
through these "motions' (or why they go through
them).
People who struggle their way through life after a while become exhausted
from these struggles and begin to seek outside help.
Over the past 100 years, a series of "experts", pundits,
"teachers" and "leaders" have appeared who pretend
that they have all the answers to life's questions. Many of these so
called experts are male. These well intentioned (but misguided)
souls have more power (ego) in mind than the well being of your soul or
mankind (let alone our precious planet).
Like many males, I was once under the false illusion that my mind was in
charge and that all I had to do was plan more, strive harder,
work harder and all my problems would be solved.
Does this sound familiar?
The "work harder,
then I'll get what I want,
then
I'll feel
better" syndrome.
But, as Vernon Howard states so eloquently, we're beginning to get a perception
into the deception. The deception that the male-centric ego
energy has been foisting upon the world for centuries that's created the
wars, the struggle, the poverty, and the heartache that people seem to
continue to fall into. (and since I'm a Male, I can see this insidious
effect more clearly then ever - and it's time for us to let it go
: - )
The End of The
Mind
Trap
We're now at a crossroads of our
civilization - one where we can continue raping the land, wasting our
precious resources and watching our children suffer from lack of
love or we can wake up from our "psychic sleep" and
live in harmony with Mother Nature instead of neglecting her.
What's this got to do with the Disease of Self Improvement? As the old
sages have taught us, it's important to understand where we've come from
in order to know where we're going. If we've come from a
male dominated (fear-based) past where few (if any) of the leaders were
truly happy with themselves, isn't it vitally important to examine
(question) the principles they've passed on (in other words brainwashed
society into believing)?
The Disease of Self Improvement means that many of us have bought-into
the false notion that in order to feel happy, we
have to be more, do more, make more, strive more,
push more... until we're so exhausted, so dis-connected
from our True selves that even
if
we found our True selves again we may have a hard time recognizing (or
feeling) if it's the real thing.
In today's society, these fear-based principles have wound their way
into every family, every school, every organization and have wound
themselves so tightly into the structure - the very fabric
of the culture that we're unable to even notice it or the effect that
this fear-based struggle has upon our bodies, our energy,
our society or our children.
As these experts continue to spread this fear-based mentality like a
contagious disease, many of us are still caught off guard because we're
so caught up in the very same struggle that they are. These experts are
afraid - afraid that they'll lose control - that they'll lose power and
lose their dominance in the marketplace.
So what can we do to see beyond these so called "experts"?
Your Own Compass - Your Own
Roadmap
The way out of the trap of self improvement is to become your own
compass - like having your own roadmap.
Instead of asking directions from "experts" who haven't even
dealt with their own core issues, you can ask the best source ever
conceived...
Your own self
Your True
Self
As you re-discover the simple pathways of discovery (and
the sheer joy of self discovery) - you'll notice that you'll pass
these "experts" on the highway of life. You'll recognize them
very clearly, they'll have that scared look on their face - like
their losing their power over you. You'll continue on your path. And
you'll never need to look back again...
How do you begin to live your life without the need for "self
improvement"? Begin by understanding that you already are
whole. Already ok - already loved by all of us who support you.
You don't need anything more to complete YOU. You already are special.
You are already
divine.
"Who you really are
is enough."
-Oriah Mountain Dreamer
(from "The Dance")
But what about all those books and videos and seminars Paul?
"Aren't any of them good?" YES, of course there are many
quality authors, speakers, and visionaries who will support you and your
Spirit. I'm challenging you to be discerning. I'm challenging you to
question the point of view of many of the supposed experts and gurus.
When you hear some of them saying "You have to work harder and
strive harder to reach your goals" (if I hear that phrase one more
time, I think I may get sick : - ) -
Stop and
NOTICE
their energy.
Watch how they treat people. What does your gut say about them? Do they
make you feel accepted and understood or pushed and manipulated?
Just stop and
Notice...
Your guidance system (your intuition) will tell you.
As you become more aware of your True Nature - Your
Spirit,
you'll be able to re-connect with your passions, your joy, your
Life's
Dreams.
And so it is...
So today, just...
b - r - e - a - t
- h - e
Take today to free yourself from the dark
side, the male-centric ego struggle that has had so many of us caught in
the mind-trap of motivation and achievement.
B r e a t h e, and take a moment to Dream
today my friend...
You don't need self improvement, you're already complete.
(and the solutions to your biggest problems are within you - not
in some guru).
To find out how you can access this
innate power within you, click
here
May the warm sun of your imagination flow easily,
effortlessly
as you make your Dreams real...
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